We Need Each Other! by Linden Malki

God, creating living creatures, from the smallest single-cell creature to human beings, made them to multiply—to become colonies or organisms or herds or families, and communities, tribes and nations. In the early days of God reaching out to mankind, we see Him encouraging the people to learn from Him how best to live together in harmony. Our history is a continuing saga of people gathering and warring, cooperating and attacking, loving, hating, and barely tolerating each other. We see this in the political world today, where people find others they can agree with and identify others that they don't trust. Even those who believe in God have their differences in what this means—some people develop their image of God in a very exclusive and specific belief, others are willing to tolerate almost everyone, and everything between. We even see God Himself in different ways, even though the one common factor is that He is unique—but even the uniqueness is defined differently.

I have had two experiences recently that illustrate our need for community. On January first, a person was found deceased in a house fire south of Winchester in Riverside County, who appears to have been my kids' cousin. The house belongs to my husband's sister, and her son had lived there and managed a weekend swap meet on Winchester Road. He was one of 35 living cousins, of whom 29 were at the memorial service last Saturday, some of whom had come from long distances to be with the family. My husband's family are from Lebanon, and there were folks there whom I hadn't seen in some years, including cousins and inlaws and extended family connections. While the occasion was unwelcome, I have learned that the opportunity to connect with relatives and friends is of great value.

The other is the Friday evening fellowship event last night. It was a good opportunity to see people that normally attend different services on Sundays, and also people who may not have ever been to a service here or anywhere. The church historically has always been called to gather in the Name of Jesus, whether in large cathedrals, underground meeting places, villages and cities from small to large, homes and storefronts and chapels, to share and teach and encourage each other in the life we have chosen.

Father Knows Best--by Linden Malki

We know the story--a rich young man comes to Jesus and asks  “Good Teacher, what shall I do to inherit eternal life?” The first thing Jesus asks is that this man knows and keeps the Commandments--which he does. But when Jesus, who knows more about us than we know ourselves, tells this man that he needs to sell everything and give it to the poor, and follow Him, this man realizes that he wants his stuff more than he wants Life. It's easy to know what to do, but doing it is a whole different proposition. The world is full of people that will tell you what you should do, but the only One who truly knows what you were created to do is the Creator Himself.  In this story, we need to notice two things: it says that Jesus loved him, and He gave the young man the option of following or not. He didn't pressure him, He didn't chase after him. He let him follow his own path, even at the cost of his soul. This is one reason that the world is in the shape that is in: God respects our decisions, even at the cost of the consequences.

Our world  encourages us to want "stuff", often at the cost of the true things in life. This may be material stuff, or ego-stroking stuff, or laziness, or stuff that tastes and feels "good" at the time but leaves a bad taste or worse. We can open our eyes and look past the superficial stuff and see what the long-run results are; and it may not always be obvious. Jesus' disciples asked what they could expect from their faithfulness, and at first it looked like trouble and opposition and hardship, and persecution. Yes, Jesus tells them, you have given up much to follow Me, but rewards will be My rewards in serving in this life and the unimaginable joys of the next. And they did see it all--all but John, from what we know, died to this world, as they had offered their lives, and are remembered and appreciated for what we can learn from them.

We live in a world that sees "freedom" as meaning that we ought to be able to do whatever we "want",  but the question is what do we think we want and why?  Too many people have put themselves first, without understanding that we are not necessarily the best judge of good and evil, practical and impractical, logical and illogical, and don't look beyond today. Even "smart" people are not smart about everything, and  may not see other people's knowledge as useful. We need to learn how to evaluate what we think and what we are told; and the best judge is the One that has always offered wisdom when we sincerely ask and want true answers. It may not be easy, but it is worth it.

The Lamp for our feet. the Light for our path--by Linden Malki

We do not know what is going to happen in the next minute, much less next year., except that we don't know. One  example of the world we live in is that even the experts on weather know that their best predictions are still subject to change without notice. The Psalmist tells us that we are given light on our pathway, but not for as far ahead as we would like. We are never prepared for what lies around the next bend of the road; that's why accidents happen.  One of the biggest problems in the development of "self-driving cars" is that even the best of the current versions can't predict the difference between stationary objects and moving objects.  We are created for a world that is always changing, in a universe constantly in motion, and every day we wake up (if we wake up; even that is not guaranteed) to weather that may or may not be what was predicted, traffic that may or may not be what it was like yesterday, and things that we may or may not be prepared for and may or may not want to deal with.  Even if we are a hermit that lives in the woods we do not know what is going to facing us when we go out the door--or even might drop through the roof.

There are ways we can be somewhat prepared, but we still realize that worrying about things that may happen is usually a waste of time and energy. I recall when my kids were little, people would ask if I wasn't worried about dealing with the world they were facing, and my answer was that the only thing I really know is that whatever it is, it will be different that what I expect, so it does no good to worry. Yes, we do have to do our best in preparing for what we think we can expect, but always be ready for dealing with both the expected and unexpected.

We do have one advantage over many of the people we deal with every day: if we know God, we can be ready to expect some things that are worth looking for: we do know that He has ultimate control over what goes on, even though we don't always like it, but in the long run we are in His hands. He does take care of us in big ways and small things, and in the long run the one thing we can look forward to is an eternity in His care.

The Spreading Message--by Linden Malki

In the story of God's movements in the history of humanity, we find His moving in at least two major ways in the lives of people. We need to realize and remember that He created us, but also that He gave us the choice, beginning with the earliest records of our history, of listening and obeying His Word, or insisting on our own independence and free will. There have always been those who have listened and accepted a relationship with Him, and those who have rejected and ignored Him. He also told those who did know Him to pass on what they had learned to others outside of their immediate culture--which didn't happen effectively until the followers of Jesus were scattered throughout the Roman Empire. Our ancestors are largely descendants of those early converts and refugees.

The spread of the Good News also happened in the other direction--to the East. The earliest known records of the Christian message spreading toward Asia is a movement known as the Nestorians, followers of a Christian bishop who broke away from the main church about 500AD and who spread across Asia as far as China around 800-1000AD, and then faded away. There were Catholic missionaries by the 1500's. The first Protestant missions followed through the 1800's and 1900's until World War II.  They were just beginning to come back in the late 1940's when the Communist takeover drove them out. My father's brother and sister-in-law were among the missionaries who had gone to China in the 1920's and helped establish churches and schools. My uncle had spent part of the war as a translator for US Army intelligence, as he read and wrote Mandarin Chinese. They went back to western China in 1946, and when the Communists moved into the area and found a former US Army intelligence officer there, they imprisoned him for almost five years. A few years later they went back to Taiwan where he was the Dean of a Christian college for another five years. There were those who looked at the story of China missions and saw it as a failure, with the Communists trying to elimnate the churches of China. However, the amazing thing is that the church didn't die out; in fact, despite the church buildings being seized by the government and used for warehouses and factories, the churches went underground and met in homes and wherever they could, and grew. After Mao was gone, many of the churches were allowed to reopen and got their buildings back, and although it is still not totally approved, there are churches which have government permits to meet, and others which are still meeting without permission..  Estimates of the number of Christians in China today range from about 30 million known church members and possibly up to 67 million total, and there are predictions that China could become one of the world's largest churches in another 20-30 years--totally self-supporting.  Yes, it was worth it!