Sunday, December 22, 2019

Presents and Presence--by Linden Malki



Why do we give presents at Christmas? It's something that we've all grown up with, and a good part of our economy is tied up with this custom. Everywhere we go, we see decorations and posters and billboards; and the special music is everywhere--some of it religious in theme, and some of it isn't, but it all has a "holiday" message that saturates our culture for a month, and then it all gets packed up and put away for the next 11 months. We all know people who really get into the flavor--they literally totally redecorate their house inside and out, from the lights on the roof to the decorations on the lawn; one of my friends warned me, as we were invited to a Christmas event, that "Christmas threw up at her house." I've had friends, and even people I barely know, beg to borrow money so their family can "have a Christmas", and they can go overboard buying more stuff they don't need or appreciate.
Yes, there are good things about celebrating Christmas--it is a reminder each year that God sent His Son to live as one of us for a short time, and teach us Who God really is, and how to live a life in a relationship with Him. If we learn the lessons that He came to teach, and catch a short glimpse of His Glory, and His love, this can be eternally important to us. If we use this reminder in His name, and show His love and generousity, this can be one of the most important times of the year. I find it interesting that we can go overboard in remembrance of His coming, and yet in a few months, almost let the truly important event of His life go almost unrecognized, But then, babies are sweet and cute and easy to deal with; and an execution and then a Resurrection are supremely important but not "fun".

Even the emphasis on giving has a place--if we remember the lessons that we are offered. The response of "wise men" from outside the Jewish culture that had become ingrown and legalistic, who were given a notice that came from a God who reaches out to all people, is a wake-up call for us. Even the stories of followers like a man called to His service, four hundred years later and hundreds of miles away, who demonstrated with his life that we need to be open to the needs of each other and willing to meet them without wanting personal credit or glory, caught the imagination of a many people in many even farther away places, and Nicholas, bishop of Myra, is still an example of how to give--in recognition of need and in the Name of Jesus, without personal credit or return. Even the distorted and exaggerated stories of St Nicholas, remembered as Santa Claus, remind us that giving is an important part of life in God's world, and it is truly more blessed give than to receive.

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